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If it turned out your otherwise perfect husband liked to wear women's silky lingerie ocassionaly would you?

go buy him some chemises and babydolls of his own or pack his bags?

Please don't make the assumption as most people seem to, that wearing lingerie makes him "gay" - that is very bad stereotyping. There are lots (most) of homosexual people who do not cross dress. According to surveys, research (Sorry can't quote any at the moment) there are lots of men (completely heterosexual) who like to cross dress at home.

The question is do you love him - if so then then you need to work out your response and how you feel (give yourself time to think and respond rationally) and then communicate with him.

If you are comfortable with it - go for it. Enjoy - you have another interest and he will be in a better position to buy these items for you as he understands it for a personal perspective. It may well spice up your life.

If you are uncomfortable with it - talk to him. Maybe you both need to get counseling. Seek to understand (both of you). Maybe you need some ground rules.

If you are against it - you have a problem that you need to comprehend and deal with. Understand why you you are responding this way and together seek counseling.

It is part of him and for now at least it is not going away - so best not to drive it underground. Remember you both must communicate your feelings, listen to the other person - what they are saying and feeling. Do not take it personally. Accept the other person and do your best to understand them.

At the end of the day it is fairly harmless soif you can enjoy it.

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